The Four Forces

I just want to put this article of Paolo Coelho in my blog..it makes a lot of sense really...

The Four Forces
Father Alan Jones says that building our soul requires Four Invisible Forces, namely love, death, power and time. It is necessary to love because we are loved by God. It is necessary to be conscious of death in order to understand life better. One has to fight in order to grow - but without falling into the trap of the power that we obtain in doing so, because we know that such power is worth nothing. And lastly, it is necessary to accept that our soul – although eternal – is at this moment caught in the web of time, with all its opportunities and limitations.

First Force: Love
Rabbi Iaakov’s wife was always looking for an excuse to argue with her husband. Iaakov never answered her provocations.
Until one night when, during a dinner with some friends, the rabbi had a ferocious argument with his wife to the surprise of all at table.
“What happened?” they asked. “Why did you break your habit of never answering?”
“Because I realized that what bothered my wife most was the fact that I remained silent. Acting in this way, I remained far from her emotions. My reaction was an act of love, and I managed to make her understand that I heard her words."

Second Force: Death
As soon as he died, Juan found himself in a very beautiful place, surrounded by all the comfort and beauty that he had dreamed of.
A figure dressed in white came up to him and said, “You are entitled to anything you want.”
Enchanted, Juan did everything he had dreamed of during life. After many years of pleasure, he sought out the figure in white. He said that he had experienced everything and that now he needed a little work to make him feel useful.
“That’s the only thing I cannot get for you,” said the figure in white.
“But I’ll spend eternity dying of boredom! I’d much rather be in hell!”
“And where do you think you are?”

Third Force: Power
“I've spent a good part of the day thinking about things that I should not think about, desiring things that I should not desire, planning to do things that I should not do.”
The master pointed to a plant and asked the disciple if he knew what it was.
“It’s a belladonna. It can kill you if you eat the leaves. But it can’t kill you just by looking at it. Likewise, negative desires can cause no harm – if you don’t let yourself be seduced by them.”

Fourth Force: Time
A carpenter and his apprentices were traveling through the province of Qi in search of building materials. They saw a giant tree; five men holding hands could not encompass its girth, and its crown reached almost to the clouds.
“Let's not waste our time with this tree,” said the master carpenter. “It would take us forever to cut it down. If we wanted to make a ship out of that heavy trunk, the ship would sink. If we tried to use it to build a roof, the walls would have to be specially reinforced.”
The group continued on its way. One of the apprentices remarked, “Such a big tree and no use to anyone!”
“That's where you're wrong,” said the master carpenter. “The tree was true to its own destiny. If it had been like all the others, we would have cut it down. But because it had the courage to be different, it will remain alive and strong for a long time.”

Libya my New Opportunity

It was on the 24th 0f June when I arrived in Libya. As I board from the Airplane from Doha Qatar, I was expecting a humid weather since my reference is Saudi Arabia weather where I have worked for two years. Together with my fellow Filipino workers, we waited for the driver that the company had arranged to fetch us from the airport. We waited for almost 2 hours when an Arab looking guy with mustache approaches us, upon mentioning the name of our company, we immediately understood that he was the driver who was arranged to pick us. As we travelled in the northern direction of the airport, the wind that slaps on my face that was generated by the speed of the car where we are riding made me realize that the weather is a bit colder here in Libya as compared to Saudi Arabia, wherein at this month of June the temperature peaks at 50°C. After an hour of sightseeing we pass through a residential area of Tripoli (Capital of Libya) and the driver guides us to the company office where we were welcomed by an Egyptian looking woman. She guides us to the front building until we reached the Personnel Manager’s Office. After a short interview and filling up of some Arabic forms they had our passports and instructed the driver to bring us to the camp to take some rest from the 15 hours flight. We travel along the coastal road of Tripoli going to Tajoura area where the workers camp was established. Immediately after we get off from the car we were greeted by the Filipino Camp Boss, as I felt my stomach is grumbling from hunger I told him that we have’nt had our breakfast yet. He asked the cook in charge of the catering services to prepare the food for us. It was Wednesday then when we arrived so immediately the following day I reported to the office which marks as my first day at work. Familiarization with the new working environment was never been tough for me since majority of the employees were Filipinos and it is just a matter of levering ones personality to harmonize getting along with my fellow Filipinos. As the news spreads in the Filipino camp that there were new workers who have just arrived I discovered that two among my kababayans from Baler, Aurora had been working in our company for long years now, the excitement of meeting them and tracing each family’s origin to know if there’s a chance that we are somewhat related to each other by blood. Astonishingly, one of my kababayan is Roger Tena, I know his father but unfortunately I can’t recall if I had a chance meeting him before in Baler. Another one is Lawrence Ruzol, I never met him before but I know some of his friends and relatives in Baler. When I had a chance talking with my mother thru the internet, she clearly explained to me that these two Kababayans from Baler are in fact my relatives..Hehehehe